Thursday, February 7, 2008

How her little mind works


I love that Jasmine is so communicative because she always says things that make me laugh and give me insight on how her mind is working.
We have been doing some potty training and typically these days she wakes up with a diaper that isn't full (if we get to her right when she wakes up). We have been putting her on the potty and she will go and is very proud of herself. A few days ago, I wasn't sure if she would go, the diaper was half full and I didn't know if I had gotten to her in time. I asked her if she wanted to go to the potty and she said yes. She sat for a few minutes and then looked into my eyes very seriously. She said, "Mom, I can't do it, I need batteries." I just looked at her and said, "Jasmine, where would we put them?" and she said sternly, "In the fridge Mom". I burst out laughing because she knows I keep the batteries in the refridgerator and she has been really into opening and looking inside the fridge for a while.
A few weeks ago I had an experience that let me know I really do need to be careful of what I say. I used to get really mad and scream and yell at people when they did stupid things on the road. After I had Jasmine I made a conscious decision to be better about that because it was not appropriate behavior for her to see. I toned it down to just calling people idiots under my breath when they do something dumb.
We were cruising down the road and I saw this guy who was having a hard time staying in his lane and as I got closer to pass him on the left, he began to mosey into my lane so I honked at him but said nothing. Jasmine, from the back seat says, "Mommy? Is he an idiot?" I was stunned that she had picked up on that and said to her, "No honey, he is just confused." Now I am trying not to call people idiots! Having a 2 year old is tough on my vocab!
I am having a lot of fun teaching Jasmine her self worth and building her confidence. She is very into princesses and knows she is one as well. We have bought her several princess dresses for her to play dress up and she loves to wear them and prance around the house. Last Saturday, I promised her that after her nap she could dress like Sleeping Beauty when she woke up and she didn't let me forget it. When she woke up, I got her into her gear, tiara, earrings and all (she calls the earrings her jewels). When I was done getting her prettied up she looked up and me and smiled and said, "Mommy, now I can marry a prince." This little phrase touched my heart and I told her that she would mappy a prince someday and he would take her to the temple. She just looked and me and smiled and scampered out of the room. What a sweetie!
Jasmine is quite the little planner. It amazes me that she has grasped the principle of waiting for things and planning for later. Many kids her age can only think in the now. When Jasmine wants something and I tell her no, she will often look at me and say, "Ok Mommy, we can do it later." She also makes plans all day. For example I will say to her, It's lunch time." and she will say, "Mommy and then after lunch I want to play and watch tv and then have a noni (nap)." The most amazing thing is that she tries to proceed and follow through on the plans she makes for herself. She is also fine if I say no to her and tell her she can do whatever she is asking for later. She accepts it and will wait for later. It is amazing to me that she comprehends that she can't always have everything now.

Wednesday, February 6, 2008

I LOVE IT!!

OK so as you all know by now I am training for the Avon Walk and have a schedule to help me be ready in time. I am a person who loves schedules and lists that I can mark off my progress. I like to know I am on track and have visual proof of it. That being said, yesterday I went and walked 3 miles (after being sick for a week it was tough) and today is supposed to be what they call a cross training day. Well, I had no idea what that means except that I know it means I shouldn't necessarily be walking (I have to do another 3 miles tomorrow according to the plan) so I went to the gym and decided to try a Body Flow class.
The body flow class includes tai chi and yoga. This sounded like something I wanted to try because as I was watching Oprah yesterday (many of you know how I feel about her) Dr. Oz was showing some yoga moves and explaining how good they are for you. Also, if you know me well, you will know that I am not a very flexible person at all and I am starting to get old so my flexibility will worsen (if that is even possible for me). So all in all, this sounded like a positive way to spend my time.
Well, can I just tell you how much I loved it. I didn't think I would but it is the right amount of exertion and workout and stretching to make me feel challenged but also good at the end of it all! So every Wednesday and Friday you can find me at the Body Flow class!

Cakes from the weekend

In addition to our winning chocolate masterpiece, we also cranked out 2 other cakes for people this weekend. We really felt they all turned out great so here they are for your viewing pleasure!

Monday, February 4, 2008

Yay for us!

So, this weekend was very fun for us at the Chocolate Lovers Festival in Fairfax. As you may have read previously, we entered a cake in the Chocolate Challenge to be judged by famed cakers Norman Davis and Zane Beg (check them out at http://www.thesweetlife.com/). It was so neat to meet them because I have watched them compete on the Food Network in many challenges and win! It was intimidating to know our work would be judged by people who really know all about cake and are stars in the field!We sketched our design about a month ago and began working on some of the details on Monday night of last week. We worked a marathon 10 hours Thursday night to finishe the cake and took it to City Hall in Fairfax Friday night. We also had to include a tasting cake for the judges as this was not only a decorating contast but a taste one as well. When we finished our cake, we knew we had a solid entry and felt that no matter what happened, we put our best foot forward. We also did not know how stiff the competition would be. We arrived Saturday morning for the judging and waiting with anticipation for them to announce the winners. We were competing in the amateur category and we had 9 other cakes in the category with us. There were only 3 in the professional category. Well, we were so excited when we saw them place the first place Best in Show ribbon beside our cake. A few minutes later they placed a second ribbon by our cake for Best in Taste! We were so elated!

Lorne asked Norman Davis what the judging criteria was and how we won. Norman said that we had more techniques on our cake and that we had executed them well and that was what helped us win. So yay for us!

Thursday, January 31, 2008

Terrible Tradgedy - Two Bees Take a Tumble

We are recovering from a rash of bad luck here in the Campbell casa. It seems the two ladies of the house are prone to clumsy accidents. Last Friday night, I was on my way out of the house for this cute Primary activity we were doing, a drive in movie for the kids. I had not been feeling well so I was rushed for time after having fallen asleep in the afternoon.
I was taking Jasmine so I put her in the car and went back inside to grab the last things I needed before we left, namely my camera and a pillow. As I began to descend the stairs, my slipper slipped on the top step and I fell on my back all the way down. The camera hit every stair also and it is broken. Also, I got some extremely large goose eggs on the back of my leg and back. I did get up and make it to the activity but I paid the price later. I didn't get up out of bed all weekend not only because I couldn't move but because I was also very sick.
Monday I wasn't feeling that much better and then Jasmine decided to be like Mommy. She was climbing the basement stairs and somehow she fell and at the bottom landed on her arm. She cried for almost an hour, which is unusual for her. We decided to put her down for a nap and hoped that when she woke up, it would be a distant memory. Well, she never fell asleep and we noticed she wouldn't move her hand or use it. We made the decision to take her to the pediatrician. They sent her for x-rays and they found that our sweet child had fractured her wrist - in both of the bones, the ulna and the radius.
We took her in Tuesday morning to get a cast put on her little arm. She was so brave and didn't cry when they were setting her arm. She got a pink cast and is calling it her pink arm! She was telling everyone how she fell down the stairs. She loves the sympathy.I also went to the Dr. on Tuesday and was diagnosed with a sinus infection AND bronchitis. You can imagine, I have not been able to train for my big walk this week and now just pray to get better so I can get back to it! I cannot even tell you how grateful I am that we have good health insurance and that Lorne was here for the first part of the week to take care of his girls!

Friday, January 25, 2008

Nothing to do next weekend?


Next Weekend is the Chocolate Lover's Festival in Fairfax, VA. It looks to be a great event and Marcia and I are entering the Chocolate Challenge. We have designed and will make our own cake (and a tasting one for the judges) and hopefully win the competition! We are excited and confident that our cake will be awesome!
So, check out the website at http://www.chocolatefestival.net/ and come out and see what we did! I will of course be posting a picture when it is done!

Thursday, January 24, 2008

Such a Bad Day!

So, you all know by now that I am training for the Avon Walk for Breast Cancer (don't worry, I haven't forgotten to hit you all up for money yet - that's comin'). Anyhow, today I got up and got into my workout clothes because after I dropped Jasmine off at school, the plan was to go to the gym and walk the 3 miles that I am supposed to walk according to my training schedule.

It did not happen. Jasmine's school is only a half a mile away and halfway there my car started doing some funny things. The car started losing power and jerking a bit. I listened for noise but there wasn't any. Also, as if in a scary movie, the check engine light started flashing. It seemed to be saying, "Warning, Warning, Danger!". I got the car to school and decided it would not be a good idea for me to drive it anywhere else for fear of breaking whatever was broken worse.
Luckily for me, Lorne had come home last night (only for the night) and was still at home preparing to leave. I called him and my knight in shining armor came and rescued me. I spent the rest of the morning calling the insurance company (to ask if they covered towing), calling the dealership to let them know my sick Passat was coming in, and calling a towing company to come and get the car. Then, I drove back to the school (this time in Lorne's car) to wait for the tow truck to arrive. About 45 minutes later, the car was on its way to Springfield and I was on my way to the airport so Lorne could rent a car.
Needless to say that I only had enough time after all that mess to drive home in the nick of time to pick Jasmine up from school. Here, the story gets a bit more depressing. As I was bummed out, I couldn't face making a healthy lunch choice so I broke down and went to the Golden arches for lunch. Oh the dirty shame. I even knew while waiting in the drive through line that this was not the answer to my problems but I didn't care, I was feeling wreck less.
Well, since you should never use food to medicate, you guessed it, it didn't help. After the double cheeseburger, large fries and Diet Coke (to wash it all down) I felt worse and believe me, I knew I would. No matter, the deed was done. I cemented it with a handful of chocolate dipped pretzels because, what the heck - I was already down for the count!
In my misery (and yes, I was wallowing), the phone rang. It was the dealership. As I asked the nice man what was wrong, he sighed. I knew this was not to be a good call. He gave me a list totalling to around $2500. All important stuff. The reason my car broke down comes down to this list:

1. The Secondary air pump (I didn't know I had one of those) seized up and stopped working, thus needing to be replaced. Because it seized up it caused problem number 2...
2. The Secondary sir pump Relay burned out, also needing to be replaced...these 2 problems lead to problem number 3...
3. 2 ignition coils needed to be replaced. It seems that by the time I got to the school I was basically driving on 2 cylinder (which explains the loss of power and perhaps the blinking danger light)

Total just to get the car running again - $1150

Next, there was more bad news...apparently -

1. My front brake pads and roters were BAD, very bad. The guy said that car would not pass inspection at this time and he wouldn't recommend driving it with a child in the car (how my life is less valuable I am still trying to figure out) Front brake overhaul - $560
2. My rear brake pads and roters were as bad or worse than the front. Rear brake overhaul - $459
3. Just in case all that was not enough, my drive belts were dry and cracking and could snap at any time - recommend replacement $210

Total to make sure the car runs next month - $2379 + TAX

Well, at this point any self-respecting girl tells the man at the dealership she'll call him back and proceeds to call her brilliant mechanic of a brother. He confirms that those are indeed legitimate problems and kindly offers to do half of the work for only the cost of the parts. He said that I should pay to get the first 3 things done so we could get the car to Tysons to the garage where he works and then he will do the belts and the brakes! I am so happy, he will be saving us like $1,000.
Lorne approved of this plan and the car is ready with the first 3 things done (I have yet to pick it up - how does one person accomplish such a task? Remember Lorne is not home) I have to give it to the dealership, they were done fast and even gave the car a much needed bath.
Well, at least I made it to choir and I tried to redeem my bad lunch choice with a good dinner choice (Subway off of the healthy menu) and no dessert. Also, after picking up Jasmine, Marcia came over and we did a 3 mile workout tape she had. Even though it was the middle of the night, I am glad I did it. Now it is off to bed for me! I am sure tomorrow will be another day - a better day!